Ten Tips for First Date Success for MEN by http://www.wcsclub.com

I hear stories every week of first dates that are either a success or totally suck. Here are my suggestions to the men in our club on how to make a great first impression on that important first date.

(1) Plan your date. Women hate nothing more than for a man to show up and say, "Well, what do YOU want to do?". Take the time to plan something creative that will give you two an opportunity to talk and have fun. Caveat: A movie is not usually a good choice for that first encounter.

(2) Clean your Car. A good washing outside and a clutter-free interior will help make a positive first impression. A nice scent is helpful if it doesn't compete with your own cologne. Caveat: Use a light hand on all fragrances.

(3) Bring a flower or a small token gift. What a great icebreaker for that awkward moment when you first pick up your date. She will definitely appreciate the gesture. Caveat: Bring nothing extravagant that will make her think you expect something in return.

(4)Compliment her sincerely. Don't tell her she's the most gorgeous woman you've ever seen if you don't mean it, but find something nice to say about her appearance. Caveat: Don't go overboard on the compliments.

(5) Conversation is a two-way communication. Many men want to "sell" themselves on the first date or are so nervous they often talk without stopping. Most women will patiently listen but they REALLY want an opportunity to interact with you. Ask her opinions, ask about her friends and her work. Caveat: LISTEN!

6) Maintain eye contact. When you talk and listen, look her in the eyes-not her chest. Let your gaze linger when you make eye contact if you are interested in her. Caveat: Don't stare and make her uncomfortable.

(7) Remember your manners. Unlike old feminist attitudes, most women I hear from prefer to have car doors opened, their chairs pulled out, having a man stand when she arrives at or leaves the table. Brush up on your Emily Post. Caveat: If she is uncomfortable with your impeccable manners, tell her you hope she'll get used to being treated with the respect she deserves.

(8) Drink responsibly. Nothing is less appealing than a drunk date. No matter how nervous you may be, watch your alcohol intake after all, you need to get her home safely. Caveat: Even if she drinks a lot, don't be tempted to join in.

(9) Say "goodnight" with class. Walk her to the door, don't ask to come in, and don't kiss her unless you get STRONG signals that she is interested. A gentle peck on the cheek is all that is generally wanted on a first night out together. Caveat: If in doubt, don't.

(10) Call her the next day. Whether you want a second date or not, it's just common courtesy to give her the opportunity to thank you for your hospitality. If you want to see her again, this is the time to let her know. If you don't want another date, just thank her for her company and tell her you'll see her soon at a Supper Club event. And you will!